Khloe Kardashian May Be Calling It Quits With Lamar Odom
"Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken"
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UPDATE: Khloe Kardashian has tweeted the below, asking her followers not to read too deep into her earlier Instagram messages. Still, she hasn't provided an explanation for the posts.
Don't read too deep into things. This is crazy lol everything gets turned into something else. SMH— Khloé (@khloekardashian) April 10, 2016
Khloe Kardashian just took to her Instagram to post two very heartfelt messages that hint at major trouble regarding her marriage to Lamar Odom, and it sounds like she’s throwing in the towel for good. She posted the quote, “It doesn’t matter how loyal you are to someone. You can’t change someone’s heart and bad habits unless they want to themselves,” accompanied by a very long, very emotional caption in which she goes into detail about trying to fix a relationship that is clearly unfixable. It's a message many of us can relate to all too well.
In her writing, she gave the following advice: “Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work.”
"Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself." Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can't want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. "People say time heals all wounds... I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived." Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people's colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN'T given. You can't love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it's for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have to understand... some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn... It took me so many years to understand that. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can't understand it (or don't want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places... Our Lord sees His vision. We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. "A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces."
We all remember when she originally dropped the divorce after Odom overdosed on cocaine at a Nevada brothel and nearly died. She stayed by his side while he recovered and it seemed that everything was going right for the couple, once again. On an episode of Kocktails With Khloe last month, she described getting back together with Odom as being “the best dream.”
However, he was caught ordering drinks at a bar just a few weeks ago, which we can only imagine didn't fly with Kardashian. It seems that not even she can be his savior at this point. She posted, “Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken.”